NUFS
nafs, nufs - soul, breath (nafas, plural of nafs), the individual
psyche/soul, the self, especially the lower self when it gets in the way of
the spiritual life.
Usually our nufs is graded by our personality, both the outer and the inner.
There are many ways to grade, here are two:
A. from Naqshbandi Tradition
Nafs-i-safiyya wa kamila (the purified and complete nafs)
Human self consciousness has endless facets. Some reflect inferiority complexes such as the need for praise and admiration, and others arise from superiority complexes such as satisfaction in humiliating and dominating others with an unquenchable thirst for self-assertion. And the more one tries to dissimulate one's weakness behind a mask of outer appearance, the more one's self-confidence collapses like a sand castle under the waves of the rising sea. But when the ego is fully "softened", through progressing through the seven stages, it harmonizes in all circumstances like the little bubbles which float along the waves even in a stormy ocean.
Progression starts when a person out of personal control, believes himself to be a coherent personality, starts to learn that he, like all undeveloped individuals, has a multiple and changing personality. The "accusing" stage is the dawn of self-awareness, in which automatic thoughts are seen for what they are. Next, the beginning of real mental integration, when the mind becomes capable of operating on a higher level than was its previous futile custom, the "inspired" stage.
Next we come to the "serene" stage of balance, equilibrium of the person, followed by power of "fulfillment", where new ranges of experience not susceptible to description beyond approximate analogy.
At stage six, "fulfilling", new activities and funcitons come into play, including extra dimensions of awareness. Finally, "completion" where capacity for objective understanding occurs, where possibility for teaching others comes into play. The whole human is a channel for the only Teacher, through the collective High Selves, the Spirit of Guidance, which is as close to absolute as we get!
Sufi SAM (Sufi Ahmed Murad Chisti) used these, from Sufi Islamia Ruhaniat
Society (SIRS):
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Hope this helps a little.
Love, only love,
Tanzen